Andrew’s granny passed away last week and he has gone over to England for a couple of days to be with his family. In retrospect, I should have gone with him, because try as I might, I’m pretty useless without my soulmate. While he might drive me crazy sometimes, he is also both the steady rock and the crazy fun rollercoaster in my life. I thought it would be such a treat to have the house and some time to myself so that I could write and read and eat chocolate in bed and lie in the bath undisturbed for hours on end if I fancied it. (Yes, I have done most of these things. Also: starfish’ed the bed to the max)
Truth be told, as much as I’d like to say that I’m an independent lady and Andrew is but a side cart to the thrilling motorcycle that is my life… really, he is my whole life. That guy makes me feel so happy in my skin and so excited about waking up every morning, that I’m actually not my entire self when he’s not around. I mean, I’m still Keri, but I’m not the best version of Keri I know I can be. I haven’t written a single inspiring thing since he left, despite having all the time in the world to do it and no noise (I don’t even turn on the TV when Andy’s not here) or any delicious smells wafting from the kitchen to disturb me or my writing process.
The thing is, Andrew IS my inspiration. He’s my man muse. He allows me to shine in my own light, holding my hand and standing at my side without ever placing any shadows over me. He spoils me and will cook me dinner while I write. He is always eager to engage in conversation with me about anything under the sun, to put his two cents worth in on my work and to encourage my dreams, no matter how big or small. He gives me the freedom to be me, warts and all. For want of sounding like a glorified cliche, he makes me a better person. No, he makes me an even better person than the best person I thought I could be.
I miss you, dude. I am just not me without you.